So right now im at a point in my life were im wondering if commitment is for me. Im wondering if I even want a serious relationship or if I just want fun. I guess im just tired of all the pressure the having to make sure your calling them or texting them. Making sure that they know you still care about them. Then there is the pressure and worrying about cheating and THE FUTURE! What ever happened to fun. The excitement and anticipation the waiting for the first kiss and the first time they put there arm around you. That’s what I love about romance so im wondering why ruin it with labels. I think that’s what ruins relationships the labels. Boyfriend, husband all those labels do is bring stress and unrealistic expectations. Plus Its like chaining yourself to an ice cube and expecting it not to melt. When you put such heavy expectations on someone all it does is set them up to fail and that’s what marriage is. It’s a over done unrealistic method that fails 95% of the time and its because when you say I do from then on you feel stuck and unable to escape. You start to resent the person you love that’s why I think you should just stay the way you are and away from those rot iron labels. Just enjoy being together and loving each other because if you trust one another and truly love one another you don’t need the labels!
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